Fire Safety: Putting Out a Campfire

Every Fatherhood Fires gathering ends the same way: with a fire that is fully, safely out. Whether you're meeting at a traditional campsite or a private rental space, please follow these steps every time.

Before You Light It

  • Check for any local fire bans or restrictions before your gathering.
  • Keep the fire in a designated fire ring or pit, well away from overhanging branches, dry grass, or leaves.
  • Keep a bucket of water, a shovel, or a hose nearby the entire time the fire is burning.

Putting the Fire Out Completely

  • Let the wood burn down to ash whenever possible, rather than dousing a large, active fire.
  • Pour water slowly over all embers, not just the glowing ones. Give it a moment to soak in.
  • Stir the ashes and embers with a shovel or stick, mixing in the water to reach anything still hot underneath.
  • Add more water and stir again. Repeat until no hissing sound, steam, or smoke remains.
  • Carefully feel above the ashes (never touch them directly) to check for remaining heat. If it feels warm, it isn't out yet.

Before You Leave

A cold fire is a safe fire. Never leave a gathering site until the fire is cool to the touch. If you can't confirm it's fully out, keep working it with water and stirring until you can.